Am here as we just lost our dog a week ago. The unbearable pain is echoed through the comments. Have had 7 dogs in my life. This is the most painful loss. Still find it hard to comprehend her not being around any more. But I have learned a lot and feel reassured from all the videos on this topic. From my previous experience I know you learn to live with, and work around the wound. But it’s so tough. I loved both my parents, and have lost them both, my mother just 6 months ago. Loosing my sweet dog has felt more acute. Just devastating.
2/8/25 our 13.5yr old dog Daisy died. We rescued her at 5mos old. Then yesterday, 3/22/25, our almost 14yr old lab died. We rescued him at 5 months as well. Losing Daisy was HARD but then losing Braxton was devastating. It was so devastating that I started vomiting which I’ve never felt this type of loss before. My whole body was just hurting!
My dog died this morning. The only thought that is keeping afloat “Our contract of love is complete”. I successfully loved my dog and she loved me with all the time we had. I can’t keep the tears from falling, replaying the last 24hrs, or make this migraine go away but I can keep giving her doggie accolades. “Good girl Victoria, you are the best Bullmastiff ever!”
My 14 year old elderly dog just died yesterday due to breast cancer….cried so hard the whole night😭, she died slowly but I never realized you could euthanize the dog to prevent further suffering. But I don't regret anything because she died in my arms and saw her last breath. Thanks for the advice.🙏
pls don't mention rabbits. They r SO awesome. Midnight died in my arms. While dying he started running. I often wonder did he see Rainbow Bridge? I carried him around for an hour.
When ive seen my mom, sister, cat others in dreams, in Heaven they were happy, energetic, healthy. Now waiting to see Roman. I had him euthanized 3 days ago. Now i wish i wud hv given him one more chance with one more surgery. He had a chance to live. With euthanasia there are NO chances
When ive seen my mom, sister, cat others in dreams, in Heaven they were happy, energetic, healthy. Now waiting to see Roman. I had him euthanized 3 days ago. Now i wish i wud hv given him one more chance with one more surgery. He had a chance to live. With euthanasia there are NO chances
I lost my Chloe this past Sunday 2/16/25. She had kidney failure, last stage and there was nothing we could do to save her. I never knew that I would feel this pain. I feel empty, devastated. Almost getting depressed. Crying . I went to work today and told my boss that I don’t want him think I’m crazy bc I’m crying for a dog. But I told him I didn’t know I would. I miss her so much. My home feels so empty and quiet without her. I had her since a puppy. She would have been 8yrs old this year. She was the sweetest smartest dog I’ve ever seen. I still have my cat Frankie. Even his sad. My husband says I need to see a therapist bc of this. He must not understand. But I’m devastated and so hurt
I lost halie Oct 1 2022 to cancer. Then my rescue Yorkie passed 3 weeks after. I had a heart attack after that. HALIE was my heart. I mourn them still everyday. I cry. Remember things cry. See things they liked. Cry. I'm losing my mine. Grief is to bad. I try to move on but. I get no signs. I hurt. I suffer anxiety. I miss my babies. I talk to them when I go shopping. Especially halie. She loved shopping and being with me. She loved my purses. Shoes. I get no signs. God help me. I'm so lost and hurt
My dog past 9 days ago and I'm devastated..I cry everyday my life isn't the same …my heart is aching ….I'm a mess and I can't get over it anytime soon ….my dogs are my best friends …❤
Lost our dog on January 26th, I’m dealing with so much pain I don’t know how to handle it… he died suddenly, I saw him take his last breath and now I have ptsd over being in the bathroom cause it’s where I was the “start” of his passing started. I came out fast to help and my wife was by his side too. His death triggered other things within me cause I realized how much he changed our lives and taught us many things, specifically how to truly love, he united our family in a time of crisis and we’re closer than ever before. I’m thankful he was in our lives and I’ll forever cherish his life.
I'll share what helped my deep grief with losing Harry, my 15 yr old sheltie & it was always just me him & my son against the world. I listened to music by Chantress Seba (specific chant music that doesnt soun chant-y, its a flow of sounds that help release rhe grief from the body) I recommend Om Nam Ganapata ye namaha, a release music format that bridges animal loss and humans/nature. Cry if u need, sob if u need. Breathwork, movement. Let your body shake, stillness when u need it, movement when you need it. Gentle breathwork and change your music & breath . I'm ultra+sensitive and feel very very deep, so my grief was unbearable. Breathing, movement, that music unbelievably helped. Peace be with you Kieran, Life Path Reiki and Healing Arts, NJ
Interesting. I lost my soul kitty girl 10/19/24 and I have not received any messages. She was always attached to me, cuddling against or on my middle body. It was the most difficult loss. I bought a stuffed animal to cuddle with and reach out to it often, and clutch it while sleeping. Should I try to let go of this stuffed animal? My surviving boy cat, who helped me through the grief of losing her also passed away 2 weeks ago. I have already received signs from him. I heard him meow just before waking and also heard him on his scratching post (which I already had donated). I am now trying to adjust not having any kitty presence in my home, they were with me for 12 years so it is a difficult change.
I can't moved on on the passing of my dog last Wednesday morning cuz my lacking of attention when he's showing signs of illness cuz I don't have the money to but him the meds that he needs and I had the money and finally bought his meds when everything is already too when his gasping for air and I'm wiping his drools he rest his chin on my hand and I think he thought i can stop what's going on to him. I hide in the bathroom and just bawled cuz I can't take his suffering until he became silent and when I went out of the bathroom he's gone 😭 I'm blaming myself cuz he's only 8 but I didn't give him the meds that he need when early signs of his illness occurred 😭
I lost my foster kitten "PUSSU" yesterday..I feel my life is empty without her. My day used to start with her and my day used to end with her. I did everything to keep her alive. She battled for her life till last but she could not….I miss her badly…I had love her unconditionally…She left us too soon…..😢
I lost my thor 2022 coming up 3 years on 26/1/25 after a terminal illness❤ he was a very special boy saved my life few times in his short 9 years such a mild kind good soul he had and very aware of dangers around me my heart still pains deep for him i feel him near me often and it warms my heart and i know his sister sees him often
Can u teach me how to communicate and connect with my Minture pincher mixed Chihuahua Delilah? I miss her so much. She passed Dec 26th 2024. I have 5 other dogs here alive but it's not the same. Pls help me communicate with my girl she was 6 yrs old.
On November 20th my cat harpie passed away i spent my last day with her we been together for 13 years we used to everything together watch tv and she would sleep on my bed not only was she a fun loving cat but she was my best friend and i bond i had with my cat and I will miss her
Hello I just joined the channel.. I haven’t watched all your videos yet but plan to. Do you connect with cats? I put down my cat 12/14 and he was sick. I took him to the vet his name is Leo. They took blood pressure and listened to his heart and said everything was fine. I was thinking great so he’s just sick at that point. They took blood and found how he was diabetic all a sudden and his kidneys were shutting down (one) and they told me he was not doing well and he should be put down…. This was a 2 day process. I had to hold him and watch him be put to sleep then his heart stop while I was holding him like a baby… hardest thing I ever had to do… he was so weak and looked like he was very dizzy and his 3rd eye was always there the last few days. He could barely walk… during the time he was being out to sleep I was talking to him and telling him I didn’t want him to go and he has been through so much with me but it’s ok because I didn’t want him to suffer and it’s ok. He went very fast. He was around 14-15 and went through everything with me. I had him before My daughter. She’s now 13 and devastated because he’s all she knew and now he’s gone.she had to say good bye to him on FaceTime.I just want to know if I done the right thing. Do you offer readings? I need peace of mind please. He went so fast, within a 5-10 seconds of that. I hope he’s ok and knows we loved him…. I continued to hold and talk to him for 10 minutes after he passed.😢
I miss my dog so much. She died May, 2024. I cry everyday for her. And I feel so sad. She was a big part of my life for 12 years. She never left my side. How do I go on without her?
I lost my Jujuba last sunday. Minha existência era tolerável e melhor por causa dela….I have no friends, she was the only reason why I was still here…I'm so empty, so alone, she was 7 years old, it was so suddenly..she was healthy
I agree with what some have said on here. The owner/pet relationship is as close as you can get to the parent/child relationship. They are innocent. They love and depend on us. We are responsible for their welfare. When they die we feel we didn't do enough. Didn't protect them enough. Couldn't love them back to health. It's only natural. Give yourself grace. Your heartbreak proves the depth of your feelings and that you are a good and sensitive person. God bless all of us.
I lost my guy Oliver 5 weeks ago and I am just so incredibly devastated. I want to talk about it all the time, but feel like no one really wants to hear how you are still devastated from the loss of your dog. Reading these comments, I know I am not alone. I found my mom and my best friend dead in their homes, and yet the grief from losing Oliver has unquestionably been worse. It truly does feel nearly unbearable at times. My heart hurts all day and all night. I am trying to trust the process and take care of myself, but it's just so incredibly hard. I just hope that someday I will feel better. Hang in there, everyone, whenever you may read this comment. You are not alone. I am sending you peace and love. May you be blessed.
My sweet boy passed away the night before my birthday. He was a Bichon Bolognese. We had the strongest bond, he was my soulmate almost for 19 years. Yesterday on thanksgiving we said the final goodbye at the Pet’s memorial. I’m experiencing intense grief, this past week I felt like I was walking in between the physical and non physical realms. He is sending me messages and I feel he’s being with me all the time, just like you explained. What does it mean to have your beloved dog passing away on your birthday? Thank you for your work!
Years ago i was grieving so badly after we had to put our dog down that strange things started happening and i dont unterstand what it was. I started having nightmares at night and i didnt knlw if there were dreams or reality, it was scary, every night i was in my bed and felt like a metal wire was binding around my ankles, i couldnt move, i was scared , i tried to call my husband but i couldnt make a sound. It was happening every night. Then someone told me it was because i was not letting my dog go and advised me to light a candle for him and tell him "you are free to go" . I did this and all the nightmares stopped but i wonder why such horrible thing was happening to me? I still think it was because my dog was upset with me putting him to sleep, maybe it wasnt really his time like i believed it was😢
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At what point in time should we think about applying this practice? How long should we allow ourselves to naturally grieve before trying this?
Am here as we just lost our dog a week ago. The unbearable pain is echoed through the comments. Have had 7 dogs in my life. This is the most painful loss. Still find it hard to comprehend her not being around any more. But I have learned a lot and feel reassured from all the videos on this topic. From my previous experience I know you learn to live with, and work around the wound. But it’s so tough. I loved both my parents, and have lost them both, my mother just 6 months ago. Loosing my sweet dog has felt more acute. Just devastating.
2/8/25 our 13.5yr old dog Daisy died. We rescued her at 5mos old. Then yesterday, 3/22/25, our almost 14yr old lab died. We rescued him at 5 months as well. Losing Daisy was HARD but then losing Braxton was devastating. It was so devastating that I started vomiting which I’ve never felt this type of loss before. My whole body was just hurting!
My dog died this morning. The only thought that is keeping afloat
“Our contract of love is complete”. I successfully loved my dog and she loved me with all the time we had.
I can’t keep the tears from falling, replaying the last 24hrs, or make this migraine go away but I can keep giving her doggie accolades.
“Good girl Victoria, you are the best Bullmastiff ever!”
Yes very hard 🥹
This is so true. Nobody seems to empathize with my grief. They say losing a pet is hard for anyone. But they don’t understand how I feel.
My 14 year old elderly dog just died yesterday due to breast cancer….cried so hard the whole night😭, she died slowly but I never realized you could euthanize the dog to prevent further suffering. But I don't regret anything because she died in my arms and saw her last breath. Thanks for the advice.🙏
pls don't mention rabbits. They r SO awesome. Midnight died in my arms. While dying he started running. I often wonder did he see Rainbow Bridge? I carried him around for an hour.
When ive seen my mom, sister, cat others in dreams, in Heaven they were happy, energetic, healthy. Now waiting to see Roman. I had him euthanized 3 days ago. Now i wish i wud hv given him one more chance with one more surgery. He had a chance to live. With euthanasia there are NO chances
When ive seen my mom, sister, cat others in dreams, in Heaven they were happy, energetic, healthy. Now waiting to see Roman. I had him euthanized 3 days ago. Now i wish i wud hv given him one more chance with one more surgery. He had a chance to live. With euthanasia there are NO chances
I lost my Chloe this past Sunday 2/16/25. She had kidney failure, last stage and there was nothing we could do to save her. I never knew that I would feel this pain. I feel empty, devastated. Almost getting depressed. Crying . I went to work today and told my boss that I don’t want him think I’m crazy bc I’m crying for a dog. But I told him I didn’t know I would. I miss her so much. My home feels so empty and quiet without her. I had her since a puppy. She would have been 8yrs old this year. She was the sweetest smartest dog I’ve ever seen. I still have my cat Frankie. Even his sad. My husband says I need to see a therapist bc of this. He must not understand. But I’m devastated and so hurt
Its 2 weeks for me and ive never experienced anything like this
I lost halie Oct 1 2022 to cancer. Then my rescue Yorkie passed 3 weeks after. I had a heart attack after that. HALIE was my heart. I mourn them still everyday. I cry. Remember things cry. See things they liked. Cry. I'm losing my mine. Grief is to bad. I try to move on but. I get no signs. I hurt. I suffer anxiety. I miss my babies. I talk to them when I go shopping. Especially halie. She loved shopping and being with me. She loved my purses. Shoes. I get no signs. God help me. I'm so lost and hurt
My dog was my world, my life, my happy place I'm so broken 💔 my heart hurts so much x
My dog past 9 days ago and I'm devastated..I cry everyday my life isn't the same …my heart is aching ….I'm a mess and I can't get over it anytime soon ….my dogs are my best friends …❤
Lost our dog on January 26th, I’m dealing with so much pain I don’t know how to handle it… he died suddenly, I saw him take his last breath and now I have ptsd over being in the bathroom cause it’s where I was the “start” of his passing started. I came out fast to help and my wife was by his side too.
His death triggered other things within me cause I realized how much he changed our lives and taught us many things, specifically how to truly love, he united our family in a time of crisis and we’re closer than ever before. I’m thankful he was in our lives and I’ll forever cherish his life.
After my 2 dogs died, i was broken and it doesn't get better 😢😢… Im even considering moving to another house to avoid all the memories
I had to put my baby down 4 days ago and im struggling so badly… Idk what to do. Its so awful. Im having severe anxiety over it.. Totally devastated 💔
I'll share what helped my deep grief with losing Harry, my 15 yr old sheltie & it was always just me him & my son against the world.
I listened to music by Chantress Seba (specific chant music that doesnt soun chant-y, its a flow of sounds that help release rhe grief from the body)
I recommend Om Nam Ganapata ye namaha, a release music format that bridges animal loss and humans/nature. Cry if u need, sob if u need. Breathwork, movement. Let your body shake, stillness when u need it, movement when you need it. Gentle breathwork and change your music & breath .
I'm ultra+sensitive and feel very very deep, so my grief was unbearable. Breathing, movement, that music unbelievably helped.
Peace be with you
Kieran, Life Path Reiki and Healing Arts, NJ
Interesting. I lost my soul kitty girl 10/19/24 and I have not received any messages. She was always attached to me, cuddling against or on my middle body. It was the most difficult loss. I bought a stuffed animal to cuddle with and reach out to it often, and clutch it while sleeping. Should I try to let go of this stuffed animal? My surviving boy cat, who helped me through the grief of losing her also passed away 2 weeks ago. I have already received signs from him. I heard him meow just before waking and also heard him on his scratching post (which I already had donated). I am now trying to adjust not having any kitty presence in my home, they were with me for 12 years so it is a difficult change.
I can't moved on on the passing of my dog last Wednesday morning cuz my lacking of attention when he's showing signs of illness cuz I don't have the money to but him the meds that he needs and I had the money and finally bought his meds when everything is already too when his gasping for air and I'm wiping his drools he rest his chin on my hand and I think he thought i can stop what's going on to him. I hide in the bathroom and just bawled cuz I can't take his suffering until he became silent and when I went out of the bathroom he's gone 😭 I'm blaming myself cuz he's only 8 but I didn't give him the meds that he need when early signs of his illness occurred 😭
I lost my foster kitten "PUSSU" yesterday..I feel my life is empty without her. My day used to start with her and my day used to end with her. I did everything to keep her alive. She battled for her life till last but she could not….I miss her badly…I had love her unconditionally…She left us too soon…..😢
I lost my thor 2022 coming up 3 years on 26/1/25 after a terminal illness❤ he was a very special boy saved my life few times in his short 9 years such a mild kind good soul he had and very aware of dangers around me my heart still pains deep for him i feel him near me often and it warms my heart and i know his sister sees him often
Can u teach me how to communicate and connect with my Minture pincher mixed Chihuahua Delilah? I miss her so much. She passed Dec 26th 2024. I have 5 other dogs here alive but it's not the same. Pls help me communicate with my girl she was 6 yrs old.
On November 20th my cat harpie passed away i spent my last day with her we been together for 13 years we used to everything together watch tv and she would sleep on my bed not only was she a fun loving cat but she was my best friend and i bond i had with my cat and I will miss her
Luckily you can communicate with your dog. I can’t
My dog died she got hit by a car how to heal from the pain
Thank you ❤️
Hello I just joined the channel.. I haven’t watched all your videos yet but plan to. Do you connect with cats? I put down my cat 12/14 and he was sick. I took him to the vet his name is Leo. They took blood pressure and listened to his heart and said everything was fine. I was thinking great so he’s just sick at that point. They took blood and found how he was diabetic all a sudden and his kidneys were shutting down (one) and they told me he was not doing well and he should be put down…. This was a 2 day process. I had to hold him and watch him be put to sleep then his heart stop while I was holding him like a baby… hardest thing I ever had to do… he was so weak and looked like he was very dizzy and his 3rd eye was always there the last few days. He could barely walk… during the time he was being out to sleep I was talking to him and telling him I didn’t want him to go and he has been through so much with me but it’s ok because I didn’t want him to suffer and it’s ok. He went very fast. He was around 14-15 and went through everything with me. I had him before My daughter. She’s now 13 and devastated because he’s all she knew and now he’s gone.she had to say good bye to him on FaceTime.I just want to know if I done the right thing. Do you offer readings? I need peace of mind please. He went so fast, within a 5-10 seconds of that. I hope he’s ok and knows we loved him…. I continued to hold and talk to him for 10 minutes after he passed.😢
I miss my dog so much. She died May, 2024. I cry everyday for her. And I feel so sad. She was a big part of my life for 12 years. She never left my side. How do I go on without her?
I lost my Jujuba last sunday. Minha existência era tolerável e melhor por causa dela….I have no friends, she was the only reason why I was still here…I'm so empty, so alone, she was 7 years old, it was so suddenly..she was healthy
I agree with what some have said on here. The owner/pet relationship is as close as you can get to the parent/child relationship. They are innocent. They love and depend on us. We are responsible for their welfare. When they die we feel we didn't do enough. Didn't protect them enough. Couldn't love them back to health. It's only natural. Give yourself grace. Your heartbreak proves the depth of your feelings and that you are a good and sensitive person. God bless all of us.
My bearded dragon just died 2 days ago. I feel such tremendous pain, guilt and regret. I wish I could talk to him. I miss him so much.
😢crying I have no words ,I miss my fur baby Levi my heart is broken 💔
I lost my guy Oliver 5 weeks ago and I am just so incredibly devastated. I want to talk about it all the time, but feel like no one really wants to hear how you are still devastated from the loss of your dog. Reading these comments, I know I am not alone. I found my mom and my best friend dead in their homes, and yet the grief from losing Oliver has unquestionably been worse. It truly does feel nearly unbearable at times. My heart hurts all day and all night. I am trying to trust the process and take care of myself, but it's just so incredibly hard. I just hope that someday I will feel better. Hang in there, everyone, whenever you may read this comment. You are not alone. I am sending you peace and love. May you be blessed.
My sweet boy passed away the night before my birthday. He was a Bichon Bolognese. We had the strongest bond, he was my soulmate almost for 19 years. Yesterday on thanksgiving we said the final goodbye at the Pet’s memorial. I’m experiencing intense grief, this past week I felt like I was walking in between the physical and non physical realms. He is sending me messages and I feel he’s being with me all the time, just like you explained. What does it mean to have your beloved dog passing away on your birthday? Thank you for your work!
Years ago i was grieving so badly after we had to put our dog down that strange things started happening and i dont unterstand what it was. I started having nightmares at night and i didnt knlw if there were dreams or reality, it was scary, every night i was in my bed and felt like a metal wire was binding around my ankles, i couldnt move, i was scared , i tried to call my husband but i couldnt make a sound. It was happening every night. Then someone told me it was because i was not letting my dog go and advised me to light a candle for him and tell him "you are free to go" . I did this and all the nightmares stopped but i wonder why such horrible thing was happening to me? I still think it was because my dog was upset with me putting him to sleep, maybe it wasnt really his time like i believed it was😢
I lost my best dog baby he was 11 n stayed by my side all the time I'm glad he passed at home and I was with him can't get over it 😢